
Our Marriage Looked Perfect, But We Hadn’t Touched Each Other in 3 Months.
I remember the day I said “yes” to Brian like it was yesterday. Charming, respectful, successful, he was every woman’s dream. Our wedding was like something out of a magazine. People envied me. But if only they knew the truth behind our bedroom doors.
Thank you for reading this post, don't forget to subscribe!The first few weeks of marriage were exciting, but then I began noticing things. Brian was always too tired. He’d come home late, blame work, and fall asleep without even looking at me. I tried everything, sexy lingerie, date nights, talking openly, but nothing worked. At one point, we went three months without touching each other. Three whole months. In a new marriage!
I started to feel ugly, rejected, and unloved. My self-esteem plummeted. I even caught myself crying in the shower, wondering if I’d made a mistake marrying him. When I finally gathered the courage to confront him, he just shrugged and said, “You know I love you. I’m just stressed.”
But deep down, I knew it wasn’t just stress.
One day, I snooped through his phone and found… nothing. No cheating. No secret messages. That should’ve made me feel better, but it didn’t. It made things worse. Because now I had no excuse, no explanation. Just cold nights, awkward silences, and the growing fear that maybe he just wasn’t attracted to me.
Then came the breaking point.
I visited my friend Sharon for a sleepover. Over late-night tea, I broke down. I poured everything out, my frustration, the embarrassment, the loneliness. And that’s when she leaned in and told me something that changed everything.
She had gone through the same thing. “It’s not always physical,” she said. “Sometimes, there’s more at play. Spiritual blockages, curses, even jealousy from outsiders can ruin a marriage without you seeing it.”
I laughed. Spiritual what? I wasn’t that kind of person. But she looked me dead in the eyes and said, “You’ve tried everything. Why not try what worked for me?”
She gave me the contact for Kiwanga Doctors.
I was hesitant, but I was also desperate. I reached out. And from the very first call, I felt heard. They listened to my story, asked questions no one else had thought to ask, and explained that my marriage had indeed been spiritually tampered with. Not by Brian, but by someone from his past who didn’t want us to be happy.
They offered a special spiritual cleansing and a bedroom harmony restoration. I was instructed on a few simple steps, harmless rituals, affirmations, and a special bath we both were to take.
Within days, the tension in our home eased. Brian started coming home earlier. He began initiating affection again, hugs, kisses, and yes, intimacy. It felt like we were honeymooners all over again. I saw that sparkle in his eyes I thought I had lost forever.
And the best part? He had no idea why or how the change happened. He just kept saying, “I don’t know what’s come over me, but I feel like myself again.”
Now, our marriage is stronger than ever. We talk. We laugh. We sleep in each other’s arms like teenagers in love. And our bedroom? Let’s just say the lights aren’t the only thing heating up the room anymore.
I share this not out of shame, but out of hope, for any woman (or man) suffering silently in a marriage that looks perfect on the outside but is dying on the inside. Don’t wait for things to fall apart. Sometimes, the answers lie in places you’ve never considered.
If you feel something is wrong but you can’t explain it, trust your gut, and seek the right help. I did, and it saved my marriage. Call Kiwanga Doctors at :
Phone: +254116469840
Website: www.kiwangadoctors.co.ke
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