I Had Been Dumped So Many Times I Thought Love Wasn’t for Me—Until I Took a Bold Step That Changed Everything

For the longest time, I believed that love was simply not meant for people like me. I was the girl who always got left. It started in high school—my first boyfriend dumped me for my best friend. I forgave, moved on, and tried again.

But every relationship I got into seemed cursed to end the same way: betrayal, heartbreak, and confusion. By the time I turned 29, I had lost count of how many times I had been left. It was always the same excuse—“It’s not you, it’s me”—or worse, they ghosted me without a word.

I began questioning everything about myself. Was I too clingy? Too distant? Not attractive enough? My friends would say, “You just haven’t found the right one,” but it never made me feel better. Deep down, I knew something was off.

It wasn’t just bad luck; it felt like a pattern. A cruel, repeating cycle I couldn’t escape. I had watched girls I went to school with get engaged, married, even divorced and remarried, while I still sat at home wondering why I wasn’t enough for someone to stay.

Then came this guy—Michael. He was different. Or so I thought. He was caring, attentive, and always made me feel safe. For the first time, I allowed myself to believe that maybe, just maybe, I had finally found someone who saw me for who I truly was.

We dated for seven months, and I was already dreaming of a future together. I had even introduced him to my parents—something I rarely did.

Then one random Thursday morning, I woke up to a text message that shattered me: “I think we should take a break. I need time to figure things out.” That was the last I heard from him. No calls. No explanation. Nothing. Just silence.

That was the moment I broke. I locked myself in my house for two days, crying, asking God what I had done to deserve this kind of recurring pain. My self-esteem was completely shattered.

I deleted all my social media accounts and even stopped going to work for a week. I told myself I was done with love—that some people are just not meant to be chosen.

But then something strange happened. A former campus friend I hadn’t spoken to in years sent me a message on WhatsApp. She said she had seen my name mentioned in a prayer group, and though she didn’t know what I was going through, she felt she should reach out.

We got to talking, and I eventually told her everything. That’s when she shared something that completely shifted my mindset.

She told me about Kiwanga Doctors—how she had faced similar heartbreaks and cycles of rejection until she sought their help. She mentioned a “love and relationship restoration spell” that helped her align her energy, unblock spiritual ties from past trauma, and attract the kind of love she had always desired.

I was skeptical, but also desperate enough to try anything. I took down their contact number: +254116469840 and emailed them at [email protected].

From the first call, I was met with warmth and understanding. I wasn’t judged or rushed. I explained everything—my heartbreak history, how every relationship ended abruptly, how I always ended up being “almost loved.”

They told me my spirit had been marked by emotional wounds that never healed, and this caused a repetitive spiritual blockage that repelled genuine commitment. They offered to help.

The process involved a love alignment spell, emotional healing, and a small enchanted item I had to keep close for 21 days. They also guided me in cleansing my aura using natural herbs to restore my inner balance. It sounded strange at first, but I followed every instruction.

Within two weeks, I noticed I was sleeping better, smiling more, and attracting better energy—not just from men but from people in general. I rejoined social media, posted one photo, and guess who messaged me? Michael. The same man who had disappeared.

He asked if we could talk. He confessed that he’d felt something he couldn’t explain push him away, like he was afraid of loving me too deeply. He had been thinking about me constantly and didn’t understand why he ran.

I didn’t rush to take him back. I took my time, but the difference this time was clear. He was intentional, respectful, and consistent.

Three months later, we officially got back together, and this time everything felt aligned. We talk about marriage now, and for the first time in my life, I feel seen, chosen, and loved with no conditions.

I still can’t believe how my life turned around so fast. I went from feeling invisible and unworthy to being in a healthy, fulfilling relationship. I truly believe that consulting Kiwanga Doctors gave me the spiritual reset I desperately needed.

If you’re going through repeated heartbreaks, feeling like love always passes you by, know that you’re not alone—and that help is out there. Sometimes, it’s not you. Sometimes, your energy needs healing and your spirit needs alignment.

You can reach Kiwanga Doctors through +254116469840, email them at [email protected], or visit their website: www.kiwangadoctors.co.ke.

You deserve to be loved—and to be chosen. I’m living proof that it’s possible.

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