
After Giving Birth, My Wife Changed, And I Wasn’t Ready for the Cold Nights.
If someone told me that marriage could feel lonelier than being single, I wouldn’t have believed them, until I lived it.
Thank you for reading this post, don't forget to subscribe!My name is Daniel, and I’ve been married to my wife, Cate, for six years. We used to be inseparable. Our love was intense, wild, beautiful. She was playful, flirty, and never hesitated to make me feel wanted. Every night felt like a honeymoon.
But everything changed after we had our second child.
At first, I thought it was just the exhaustion. Late-night feedings, diaper changes, chasing around a toddler. I understood it wasn’t easy on her, so I waited. I gave her space. I tried to help more around the house.
But weeks turned into months. Then nearly a year went by.
She stopped touching me. No hugs. No kisses. No glances of desire. We shared a bed but lived like roommates. I started to feel invisible, like a stranger in my own home.
I would reach for her, and she’d turn away. “I’m tired.” “Not now.” “Maybe tomorrow.” But tomorrow never came.
At first, I blamed myself. Maybe I was too pushy? Maybe I wasn’t doing enough? I hit the gym, changed my haircut, bought new cologne. Nothing worked.
I tried talking to her, gently. I asked if I’d done something wrong. She’d just shrug and say, “I don’t know what’s happening to me.”
But I knew what was happening, to us. Our marriage was dying in silence.
The worst part? I started resenting her. I hated how cold she’d become. I hated how unwanted I felt. I even began thinking of cheating, just to feel like a man again.
That thought scared me.
So, one night, I confided in an old friend. I told him everything, expecting him to judge me. But instead, he nodded knowingly and said, “You need to see Kiwanga Doctors.”
I laughed. “You mean those spiritual guys?”
He looked me dead in the eyes and said, “They saved my marriage. Just call them.”
Desperate, I did.
And for the first time in a long time, someone truly listened. Kiwanga Doctors explained something I hadn’t considered: postpartum spiritual blockages, suppressed emotional trauma, and even external jealous energies can build a wall between lovers,especially after childbirth.
Cate hadn’t changed because she stopped loving me. Something had spiritually interfered with the bond we once had.
Kiwanga Doctors performed a cleansing ritual for our home, and gave me a powerful intimacy restoration solution. It included spiritual guidance, herbal aids, and a unique ritual to reignite passion.
Within two weeks, everything shifted.
Cate started smiling again. She reached for my hand in the kitchen. One night, she put on that perfume I loved. And when she touched me again, it wasn’t just physical. It was like her soul had returned to mine.
We cried together. We talked. We reconnected. She told me she hadn’t realized how lost she had become, how numb everything felt.
Today, our bedroom is alive again. Not just with passion, but with laughter, late-night whispers, and quiet moments that remind me why I married her in the first place.
If you’re going through something similar, don’t suffer in silence. Sometimes love doesn’t die; it just gets buried under emotional weight and unseen forces.
Kiwanga Doctors helped us dig it out, and now, we’re stronger than ever. Contact Kiwanga Doctors at;
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