I never thought I’d write something like this, but what happened to me almost destroyed my confidence as a man. And if there’s even one other man out there going through what I went through, I hope this helps.

Her name was Phiona. Beautiful, smart, confident, she made me feel lucky just to stand next to her. But in the bedroom… things were never the same. I noticed early on that she wasn’t really satisfied, but I tried to ignore it. Until one night, she said it out loud.

“Hii yako ni toothpick. Is that all?”

I was frozen.

I laughed awkwardly, trying to play it off, but my heart was shattered. It wasn’t just the words, it was the disgust in her eyes. I had heard of women leaving men over size, but I never thought I’d be the one humiliated. From that night, I couldn’t perform. Even when I tried, my mind was filled with shame. She eventually left me, saying she couldn’t “keep pretending.”

I was broken. My self-esteem crashed. I avoided women, avoided people. I felt like less of a man.

Then one evening, while scrolling through my phone, I came across a post where a man said he was “restored” after visiting Kiwanga Doctors. He didn’t give too much detail, but something in the way he said “restored” gave me hope. I saved the number and called.

I didn’t know what to expect, but they were surprisingly kind. I explained everything, from the humiliation to the shame. The Kiwanga Doctor listened quietly, then said, “What you’re going through is more common than you think, and it’s treatable.”

He told me my condition wasn’t just physical, it was partly spiritual and emotional. That humiliation had created a mental blockage, and I needed cleansing, confidence restoration, and a strengthening herbal solution.

He gave me a powerful herbal mix with clear instructions, along with a waist charm to wear discreetly. He also gave me a cleansing oil for night use and asked me to commit to a short routine for two weeks.

At first, I wasn’t sure it would work. But by day five, I already felt different. Stronger. More energy. By day ten, morning stiffness came back, something I hadn’t experienced in months. I started feeling confident again. I could feel the difference physically and emotionally.

And when I finally got close to someone new, I performed like a king. No nerves. No failure. And certainly, no more “toothpick” comments. She couldn’t stop smiling afterward.

It’s been months now, and I’ve never felt more like myself. The shame, the fear, the broken ego, it’s all gone. I’m not writing this for fame. I’m writing this because no man deserves to feel humiliated in the one place he should feel confident.

To any man going through the same thing, don’t suffer in silence. There’s help out there. Kiwanga Doctors gave me my pride back, and I’ll forever be grateful. Reach out to them at +254116469840 or visit their website www.kiwangadoctors.co.ke.